Christmas…what does it look like for you?
For some it’s a time to be with family, opening present upon present.
Others a time to be with family and eat lots of food.
For others a time to celebrate the birth of a little baby boy many years ago and what he stood for.
Christmas in our family has slowly changed over the past few years as my siblings have gotten married (or are getting married) and have started families of their own. And by doing that have started their own traditions. This Christmas is different for us all. As my parents spend Christmas day by themselves for the first time ever. Both my younger sisters at their significant others houses for the holidays. And my 3 older siblings spending Christmas days with either the other side of their family or with just their immediate family (which is pretty ‘normal’ now). And then there is me who is on the other side of the world celebrating Christmas 8-9 hours before the rest of my family. In 30+ weather. With about 80 children who don’t have a biological family to call their own, and to celebrate Christmas with. But here at Lily they have created their own family among them.
| Walking down to the beach |
I have loved being here at Lily and would not change the fact that I get to be here and try to serve these kids as best as I can while I am here for this short time… but it is still really hard to be away from home, knowing that I am missing things with family and friends. I could careless about the opening of gifts and stockings in the morning. It’s things like not being able to give my Mom and Dad a hug and wish them a Merry Christmas when they get woken up at 7:00am because everyone else is already awake in the house…(Thank you Dallas!) It’s not being able to play games with my siblings and watch us make fools of ourselves as we try to hum a song as everyone else tries to guess what song they are humming.
| Me, Nikki, Grace (another SALTer), Rebecca (a service worker) and Sophie (Zambia Reps daughter) |
Christmas Eve was great. In the morning we played games and puzzles with who ever wanted to hangout with us. Then in the afternoon we watched “How the Grinch Stole Christmas” (the real one) with a bunch of kids, I was pretty happy with this because I usually watch this movie every Christmas but was not able to bring it here. Than there was a “Christmas Eve Service”, but we just watched the movie “Nativity” and sang a few Christmas carols. Which was great. After that the volunteers went over to Bridge and Hilary’s house to snack on some food and just visit.
Christmas Day was great! There was a service in the morning, but before the service I got to open a few Christmas cards from Mom and Dad and Steve and Kirsten! And than pretty much got ready for the dinner that was going to be for anyone who is at Lily (kids, staff and volunteers). Spent a lot of time peeling potatoes. Decorating the tent where we are all going to eat and be merry. Also I was hoping to FaceTime or Skype with some family at some point, but my internet was not working :( so Mom and Dad called me instead. It was still good to hear their voices and talk to them for a short while.
| The kids at Lily listening for instructions of how supper was going to work. It was a great meal and so much food! :) |
Over all I would not change this Christmas… (okay maybe I would have made the temperature a little more bearable! +39 is hot!!) I know it will be one I always remember. As difficult as it is to be away from home at this time, I am more than happy to be here with these kids!
Until next time… make sure to take in all of the things you are involved in right now. (As Parker from season 8 of Friends would say “I must take a mental picture! Click!”)
P.S. I will try to get more pictures of the orphanage. But I can't post clear pictures of the kids faces. I can do bigger group shots. So I only have one from Christmas Day the rest are pictures from the retreat with the Southern Africa MCC workers.














